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Re-Define yourself
RE-DEFINE define again or differently Your life and your purpose should be owned by you. If you’ve been living your life solely on other people’s terms, today it’s time to redefine your life and yourself. To define means to establish the essence of something. In this case your identity. Redefining allows room for corrections of past mistakes. This simply means that you admit to having done mistakes but never letting mistakes define who you are now. Because you are taking the stand to define again what was once the best of you. The importance of redefining yourself. Regardless of what people have made you believe of yourself in the past.…
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CTRL, ALT, DEL!
One of the hardest things in life is to let go. I can never fathom how some people do it. But I must say, it’s a need. At times we hold onto things that no longer serve us any good purpose to an extent that it becomes a burden we carry daily. If you resonate with this I have some news for you. Both good and bad. This time I’ll start with the good news. Here it goes: you are a great person and God will continue blessing you abundantly. But I’m gonna burst that bubble before you enjoy it. Holding on to things or people rather that don’t bring…
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Are you reading enough books?
One of my 2019 resolutions was to read books like never before. I kept it at a book a month. I must say, if reading isn’t for you, this commitment is a little bit extreme if you’re studying or working, or doing both like I am. However, for myself I’m enjoying it so far. Reading books is essential especially if you want to grow in certain aspects of life. It could be a personal thing or a professional growth strategy. I’m sure you can tell the difference between a person who reads and one who doesn’t. If you haven’t read any book in the last three months, hmm. Maybe try…
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Know your worth
As young women in this new Era, it is very easy to get caught up into what society deems we need to be like. Only forgetting that after all we are our own persons. Many young people are prone to falling into depression, anxiety and or committing suicide than ever before. Have you ever asked yourself why? The answer is simple, we set standards that we ourselves can’t follow. Then expect everyone else to. When they don’t, we start labeling them into failures or rather not enough for us. For numerous years pear pressure has led to many young people doing things they are not so comfortable in doing all…
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Using social media for your benefit
Social media is like a world of it’s own where everything is made accessible to all. Are you using that to your advantage? Or you just sit on your phone for hours without good gain? I’ve been asking myself these questions daily after I’ve tracked my social media time. Only to find that at times after 3 hours of social media usage, nothing useful came out of it. Don’t get me wrong, often these questions are misunderstood. Nobody is saying you need to start a business online or be an influencer of some sort to ensure you are using social media well. Because even the most successful online business owners…
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Self made fortunes, can you do it?
It has been making the rounds on social media that our very own Rihanna took it on her own hands to become a self made millionaire. From rags to riches, she is now a renowned successful musician and entrepreneur. Sources say musical guru is now worth $600M, 10 years post bankruptcy. Although some things may be questionable. The real question at hand is, can ordinary joe do it himself? Rihanna has set the bar here, and with that she has proven that hard work is paramount for any success. Especially for black folks. She really is representing. I’m going to put it out there, anything worth celebrating never comes easy.…
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Are you thankful enough?
So today I’m feeling a little emotional, come to think of it this has been going on for quite a while now. I’m going to take this time to pour it all out. I actually want to share this graceful period with me. Give yourself a moment and look back. It could be your life’s journey, it could be career related or just a personal thing. What I want you to do it’s take a timer and time it to 30 seconds. In this 30 seconds think about all the good things that have happened in your life. LETS GO When you’re done. Does it make you smile or cry?…
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Motivation Monday | Planning, Executing, Businesses and Investing
First of all I want to say, apologies for the inconsistency the past week has been hectic. Both personally and work wise. Which is why I haven’t posted on the Monday. However I hope this post is twice as fruitful to cater for both days. I have been contemplating on what to name todays theme with no luck in any idea. But that won’t in any way stop me from writing. With the many plans I have for 2019, seeing that 2018 is quarter to an end my message will be based on planning and executing. More often than not, we make numerous plans some exaggerated which is why it…
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Motivation Monday | Bugdeting 101
Its the first week of December. We all know that this is the month of spending our years savings, at least for those who have had something to save. However because we are so used to spending recklessly to some extent during the festive season. To the point that we forget about the so called “JANUWORRY”. Why not plan your year today. January is the month of new beginnings and resolutions, if you haven’t been living the life you want to live, I’m here to help with this 2019 budget plan. Of which you can use to plan ahead. With this budgeting tool you can never go wrong. WHY BUDGET?…
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Motivation Monday | Own race
I’ve just started a series of posts that will be coming up every Monday. I call this – Motivation Mondays. Today I want to speak of staying in your own lane. Why because it’s your own race. Focus on your own race at your own pace Many of us struggle when it comes to this concept. Mainly because of societal pressures. But how do you succumb to such pressures and remain in your own lane? Even i don’t have the secrete. Just try. Being in your 20s is the most difficult time especially in this day. There are so many expectations given that we supposedly should meet. Given by who,…
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